Gavin Bromfield
Sep. 16, 2025
“Your dog is untrainable,” they said. “Your dog is a lost cause,” they said.
Two and a half years ago, I was told this by a puppy training school where my German Shepherd, Shade, had been enrolled for a two-week course. I got Shade when he was ten weeks old, and he was an anxious pup from day one. I figured he’d grow out of it as he got older, but at six months old, a trip to the beach raised serious concerns. He didn’t tolerate strangers at all and made it abundantly clear to everyone—including those in neighboring zip codes. Even at six months, getting yelled at by a set of teeth attached to a life-support system was terrifying for the innocent.
When I received the “lost cause” verdict, I was seriously bummed—sad, even. I also have two golden retrievers and love taking my fur faces with me whenever possible. Obviously, having an aggressive (now 110-pound) German Shepherd around strangers was out of the question, so I resigned myself to keeping Shade isolated—a bad day for both of us.
Fast forward to a few months ago. On a whim, I asked AI whether there was any hope for a “lost cause” like mine. AI responded: Absolutely. There’s almost no such thing as a “lost cause” dog—only those that might need a different approach, more patience, and dedication. That sparked hope! I asked AI to recommend good trainers in my area, preferably experienced with anxious Shepherds. Dog Training Elite was the top suggestion, so I called for a second opinion. Whitley from Dog Training Elite visited within a few days to meet Shade, who, of course, greeted her by yelling and showing off his pointy pearly whites. Whitley echoed AI’s sentiment: He needs work, but he’ll be just fine. I committed to their program on the spot.
The trainer assigned to me, Evey, came to my home every Friday for eight weeks to train Shade—or so I thought. I quickly realized Evey was training me. To be fair, I needed it more than Shade did. The sessions covered new commands, how to elicit desired behavior, what to do and avoid, body language, and more. It was an awesome learning experience. Each week, we received homework to practice for 20-30 minutes daily, and I was impressed by how quickly Shade progressed. The before-and-after, even within the first week, still seems unbelievable. Turns out my “best boi” is also a “smart boi.”
I was thrilled to see Shade steadily tolerate Evey (no more toothy yelling) and, more importantly, start taking cues from me instead of taking matters into his own paws. This helped me realize my nervousness about him around strangers was being picked up by him and expressed as aggression. The more confident I became, the more he deferred his emotional responses to me. Evey helped break negative feedback loops and build positive ones—a good time to mention that Evey is an absolute rock star.
Our final lesson was a milestone: an outing to Home Depot. I was a bit apprehensive leading up to it but confident on the day that Shade would ace his graduation. Spoiler alert: He did. He never once yelled or looked like he wanted to ventilate anyone.
That Sunday, Shade and I celebrated with a burger at a local dog-friendly restaurant. He was interested and attentive to the goings-on but impeccably well-behaved. My boy!
To Dog Training Elite: I am ecstatic about the results you’ve helped me achieve. Thank you! Worth every single penny.
To Whitley: Thank you for being straightforward and inspiring confidence in my “lost cause.”
To Evey: You rock. I appreciate your help and guidance immensely.
To everyone else: If you need help training your best friend, give Dog Training Elite a call, you won’t be disappointed.